Well today is the 100Th day that my uncle passed away, sadly my father has to pray him and force us to pray also... He passed away on 09/06/08 5 days before I went to NS, attended his funeral on 10/06/08, saw all my uncle aunt cried, saw all my uncle's wife side of the family cried, and I was just standing there with out any feelings or shed a single drop of tears watching them cry cry cry...
Well, I don't feel sad because he was dead even though he is my relative, I won't cry for death dude, I'll cry for love... Losing the one I love is the most painful thing, meaning of losing here is not death I am referring... Well dad, when praying I can see that you were shedding tears, oh gosh get over it dude, his been gone for 100 days already, crying won't bring him back either... Since his face was in peace during the last session that we saw him, why not let him go in peace... Rather then let his spirit see you all crying over his death and make his miserable...
Well to all dear relative, GET OVER IT... Life is short, Live it to the MAX... Enjoy Guys... !!!